Anda setuju ke kalau kehidupan kerja tak perlu dikaitkan dengan peribadi? Bagi kami tak setuju, namun bukan sepenuhnya. Ini kerana kita hanya tertekan dari sudut negatif di tempat kerja, buat keputusan nak 'cabut' tanpa perlu diharunginya sedangkan dalam resume ada tulis "berkebolehan mengatasi masalah" di bahagian kemahiran dan "boleh bekerja dibawah tekanan", "boleh menyelesaikan masalah dalam masa singkat" di bahagian kelebihan.

Bermacam-macam alasan dicari apabila tidak mencapai jumlah sasaran, cuba cari kerja baru kononnya ingin memulakan kehidupan lain, dan masalah sama yang timbul, tertekanan berhenti kerja dan persalahkan majikan yang membataskan kejayaan anda. Adakah ini disebabkan masalah tempat kerja atau attitude  kita di tempat kerja yang bermasalah?

Bak kata pepatah "hendak seribu daya tak nak seribu dalih" seperti yang dikatakan oleh Xandria Ooi ini, sikap kita di tempat kerjaya yang akan mencerminkan kejayaan kita dari pelbagai aspek dalam hidup. Tak percaya? Ikuti penjelasannya yang membina ini.

"Our attitude at work... reflects our successes in life. Here's why"

Transkrip :

Work is supposed to be exciting, bosses are supposed to be encouraging Colleagues are supposed to be supportive. When things at work aren't going the way we think they're supposed to, it can be hard to muster up the energy and enthusiasm to give our best.

We might spend our time checking Facebook at our desk more than we actually work. It's not that we're not capable, we're just bored or we feel like there's no point working harder because no one notices anyway.

But our attitude at work reflects our successes in life. For example, we might think that we actually pretty awesome at our life outside of work but, if we cannot psyche ourselves up to give our 100% at work when we're feeling uninspired then how do we conduct our relationships when we face challenges and difficulties?

We may put our work and our relationship in different boxes, and although they are definitely not the same thing, it is our skills in overcoming stress, boredom, frustration, boredom dan anxiety that overlaps.

We're the creature of habit if we're used to giving up and thinking negatively when it comes to challenges at work then it will be incredible to figure out solutions to our personal problems because of both situations different as they are using the same mind.

If you think about it, we spend more time at work than out of work, so if we're not developing the muscles to lift ourselves up at work if we're not used practicing to give our best then how can we expect to suddenly be able to do that in our relationships?

We always think that we can because relationships are more important but it's not about what matters more to us because even when we care a lot we might still not have the skills to turn the negative situation around.

Exercising the mind is like exercising the body, if we only do it once in a while it's going to be difficult to perform well when it matters the most. Learn to give your best at whatever you do and those skills will help you succeed in every aspect of life and to be happy, always.